Family of God: Re: [FamilyofGod] stealing

I would do what I could to make them pay me back and I could not get them to,I would tell them that untill thay payed me back,apoagized for thair behaver and try to build back the trust with me that thay were no longer welckom in my life but that if thay took to long to decide to do so I may choose not to acept thair apolagy and that just because thay may want to build back the trust dose not garunty that I will ever truely be able to trust them agin and that I will try to forgive them and move on not for them or even for god but for myself cuz holding on to that negativity will only do me more harm when thay have caused me enuff pain alredy and I would not want to dwell in that pain but I know that this is easer sed than done whitch it why I say I would try for that is what I am doiung now,I am trying to forgive my husband for all of the lies and abuse and paine he has given me so that I can finaly try to be free of the unending pain from not being able to forgive and let go,I am not saying that ne1 should let others walk all over them and just get away with it but that for awer owen sakes we should first let them know that what thay did is varry wrong and has hurt us varry badly and damaged awer relatinship with them forever but that we care enuf about awer selves and awer owen happyness to forgive them so that we can move on without carrining around that bagage

--- On Mon, 10/5/09, sweetlady <blpittenger@hvc.rr.com> wrote:

From: sweetlady <blpittenger@hvc.rr.com>
Subject: [FamilyofGod] stealing
To: FamilyofGod@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, October 5, 2009, 12:16 PM

If a loved one stole from you would you let it go or confront that person? Would you make them pay you back or just forgive them and let it go?

Bonnie