Family of God: Re: [FamilyofGod] VENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Then why do you stay, girl??? God DOES NOT demand that we stay in a marriage and be battered! I know a lot of people argue that point because of all the Scripture that teaches us to not divorce, but there are circumstances also listed to approve of it. I know it speaks of only "adultry" being committed that allows a divorce, but I feel it goes much further than that!! God would NEVER expect anyone to stay in a marriage and, maybe, be killed doing it.

My husband and I have been married for 53 years and we praise God that we met and married in the church we both attended and are believers in God/Christ -- putting God first and then our marriage is probably a decisive factor.

God would never, I believe, fault you (and if you have kids take them with you) for leaving this man.

To be honest, few people base a marriage on God. Instead, they marry for sex. That's where the rub comes in!

The Bible tells believers to marry believers...and we know why -- so that what is happening to you wouldn't happen. If your husband is claiming to be a Christian, then the marriage would be a good one.

<><Debi
God have mercy on us all

In God (ONLY) we (MUST) trust

-----Original Message-----
From: Shelley Cartwright
Sent: Dec 6, 2009 10:58 AM
To: FamilyofGod@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [FamilyofGod] VENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

im leaving for the er here soon im falling apart debi hes already being mean again this morning

Love me or hate me...Im STILL Gonna Shine....
ShelleyGlitter

From: "oggd@earthlink.net" <oggd@earthlink.net>
To: FamilyofGod@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sun, December 6, 2009 4:15:06 AM
Subject: Re: [FamilyofGod] VENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Gees, Shelley, get the back surgery and be done with the pain! Living in pain is tough -- I know. Our adult daughter has been disabled since she was young (asthmatic) and alleric to more med's than I can count. Her bones are crumbling now but she walks on. We don't know why God allows what He does in our lives -- but we walk on! Do what can be done medically/and with doctors and live the life God gives you (for His good reasons.)

<><Debi
God have mercy on us all !!
In God (ONLY) we (MUST) trust

-----Original Message-----
From: bugshell87
Sent: Dec 6, 2009 5:38 AM
To: FamilyofGod@ yahoogroups. com
Subject: [FamilyofGod] VENT!!!!!!!! !!!!!!

Family~Ok... its time again, vent!!! Alot of u have known me for awhile, u know since i joined fog ive had pain and im an addict.Well, its just gotton worse for me. I juz detoxed off 125 mcg of fentanyl being delivered every hour to my body from a patch, the pain is so severe i got a blade in the bathtub(so i wouldnt bleed all over the floor and leave a mess) and thought of ending my life, in 2004 i almost did. The docters say they do not know how i survived an overdose as large as i took. I was in icu for a week tubes everywhere and full life support. WHY? WHY AM I HERE?????? This sux. Well, here i am back on the pain meds cuz i cant take the pain, i may actually need surgery cuz my backs curving pretty bad from kyphosis/scoliosis. Bryan and i , the relationship is failing after 7 years, b 4 that we were together 2 1/2 years.He saved me from the streets where i was a call grrl/prostitute for 7 years i lived on the streets, doing drugs such as, heroin, cocaine, meth,alchol, im so ashamed....how awful i was a whore. I betcha the people that havent known me for long, this is blowing yur minds? Shoot, i have alot more to confess, but that, is for jesus ears only. I hope i never do go psychotic again and do kill myself, cuz im fightin hard to live here only to not go to hell, and to be with my king, my love, jesus~ShelleyGlitte r