Family of God: Re: [FamilyofGod] Wanda -husbands and the church

Wanda my ex said the same thing. He still stalks me. We have been divorced 2 yrs. I may never get married again. I don't hate men I hate abuse. Dating scene is the pits.

Bonnie

1 Corinthians ch 13 vr 4-7

What love is
4. Love is patient, love is kind, love does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5. It is not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily anger, and keeps no record of wrongs.
6.Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices in truth.
7, It always protects, it alwasy trusts, it always protects, and always preserves.

----- Original Message -----

From: Wanda Ward

To: FamilyofGod@yahoogroups.com

Sent: Wednesday, September 30, 2009 2:50 PM

Subject: Re: [FamilyofGod] Wanda -husbands and the church

my ex swore to take my life before i would ever be with another man. that was 30 years ago and he has come close to death several times. he was obsessed about everything he thought he owned.

wanda
GOD IS LOVE

From: sweetlady <blpittenger@hvc.rr.com>
To: FamilyofGod@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wed, September 30, 2009 12:29:26 PM
Subject: [FamilyofGod] Wanda -husbands and the church

Not my ex Wanda, lol he may take my life; but not give his life for me. Its sad but true.

Bonnie

1 Corinthians ch 13 vr 4-7

What love is
4. Love is patient, love is kind, love does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5. It is not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily anger, and keeps no record of wrongs.
6.Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices in truth.
7, It always protects, it alwasy trusts, it always protects, and always preserves.

----- Original Message -----

From: Wanda Ward

To: FamilyofGod@ yahoogroups. com

Sent: Wednesday, September 30, 2009 1:26 PM

Subject: Re: [FamilyofGod] Witness for christ BARBARA FOR YOU

so many people dont know what true love is. Jesus says a man should love his wife as God loves the church. he gave his life for the church, but how any men would do that for the wife they say they love?

wanda
GOD IS LOVE

From: Letty Acosta <lettyacostaa@ yahoo.com>
To: FamilyofGod@ yahoogroups. com
Sent: Wed, September 30, 2009 10:20:44 AM
Subject: Re: [FamilyofGod] Witness for christ BARBARA FOR YOU

GOD BLESS YOU iam an evangelist have been sering JESUS for 16 yrs SO YES IN NO WHAT YOU MEAN ,JESUS made us to preach,love and help eachother.but some will never see GODS word the way JESUS wants so do not worry about it go preach or pray and leave it to jesus the rest,love for the lost andf blind souls, JESUS is love if the jehova wittnesses were from GOD they would have love,the real thrue love form god JESUS is the real true love amen amen amen GO WITH JOY SOMETIMES WE DONT SEE WHAT JESUS SEES WE HAVE LOTS OF JESUS CAMERAS ALL OVER THE EARTH Evanmg Letty

--- On Wed, 9/30/09, Molly Chandy <jmchandy@yahoo. com> wrote:

From: Molly Chandy <jmchandy@yahoo. com>
Subject: Re: [FamilyofGod] Witness for christ
To: FamilyofGod@ yahoogroups. com
Date: Wednesday, September 30, 2009, 9:58 AM

Hi Barbara,

Mary Ann had posted yesterday for prayer for you and I did pray. You wrote your husband hates you.. I am sure he doesn't . He may not know how to communicate well to you. Men are such complicated beings. They might adore you, but what comes out of from their mouth will be otherwise. So don't give too much importance to your husband's words. Who will not love such a person as you who lives for the family needs? You need to realize that you are God-sent in that household, with such challenges. When someone insults you for your faith remember that you are blessed.

"Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me.Mathew 5:11

This life is full of hardship. We can take a look at those hardship and scream at others or we can do something about it little by little with a smile, hand in hand with God. Be a candle where ever you are.Even when we burn we spread a little light in the darkness and you never know who will light a candle at it. So keep shining my friend.
"To know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived, that is to have succeeded."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

I think Barbara you are succeeding in your day to day life. It was all possible because you

believed in Jesus and his grace that is sufficient for you.

Hugs.
Molly

--- On Wed, 9/30/09, Aeryn <northernmidnightsun @yahoo.com> wrote:

From: Aeryn <northernmidnightsun @yahoo.com>
Subject: [FamilyofGod] Witness for christ
To: FamilyofGod@ yahoogroups. com
Date: Wednesday, September 30, 2009, 9:18 AM

oh Molly, my muslim husband hates Christians and he really hates me (stays for the kids)[[he himself has said this, and to him if I say that Jesus loves him, he would laugh and say jokes about it]].

I hope someone will one day speak to him about Jesus ( he gets furious if I just say the name).

I've been overseas. In many places the name Jesus and the Cross offends people.

we pray for the opportunity to give people enough information to make a choice. That's all we can do, and yet it is so hard

luv,barbara

--- On Wed, 9/30/09, Molly Chandy <jmchandy@yahoo. com> wrote:

From: Molly Chandy <jmchandy@yahoo. com>
Subject: [FamilyofGod] Jehovah's Witness
To: FamilyofGod@ yahoogroups. com
Date: Wednesday, September 30, 2009, 1:04 AM

Faith is a personal choice. Living clean lives without hurting anyone by words or acts , is the choice we need to make . We believe in Jesus Christ and His redemptive power. Some choose not to see Jesus as divine. It is like I said a personal choice. We can tell others about Jesus, but it is upto the person whether to receive it or not. Jehovah's witnesses firmly believe in their theology, just like Hindus , Muslims, Zoroastrians and Buddhists. In an ideal world they shouldn't criticize our faith in believing in Jesus. Likewise we should tolerate individual beliefs. Love is the key. Love one another as Jesus taught us and spread the gospel of love. Then we might look acceptable in God's sight.

Yours in Christ,
Molly

--- On Wed, 9/30/09, Shelley Cartwright <bugshell87@yahoo. com> wrote:

From: Shelley Cartwright <bugshell87@yahoo. com>
Subject: Re: [FamilyofGod] Oversensitive to rejection?
To: FamilyofGod@ yahoogroups. com
Date: Wednesday, September 30, 2009, 5:57 AM

the jehovahs witnesses are not forgiving people and are very strict.

Daughter to the king!!

ShelleyGlitter

From: Wanda Ward <angelina56p47@ yahoo.com>
To: FamilyofGod@ yahoogroups. com
Sent: Tuesday, September 29, 2009 5:10:11 PM
Subject: Re: [FamilyofGod] Oversensitive to rejection?

if they were christians why did they put you out?

wanda
GOD IS LOVE

From: Aeryn <northernmidnightsun @yahoo.com>
To: FamilyofGod@ yahoogroups. com
Sent: Monday, September 28, 2009 8:22:14 PM
Subject: [FamilyofGod] Oversensitive to rejection?

I was in a group at the time I was even more confused than now. I discussed the possibility of me studying with the Jehovah's Witnesses, even though the list rules told us not to get into arguments. I was rightly kicked out.

later on, when I apologized and tried to go back in with the condition that I wont get into any of that again, I was not allowed in. And this really hurt. I considered them brothers and sisters.

I am wondering if Christians are obliged to give second chances. I was never rude, just perhaps argumentative. I am wondering if I am too needy of love and acceptance.

how do I handle rejection? there are other groups who like me. Is it my ego, then? I had a desire to make things right, but it was denied.

I am wondering if you've ever been through the same

luv,barbara